Reader Reviews

Its one thing to claim a book is incredible, but its another to have those folks that put their hard-earned cash on the table say so:

                            "Scary!"                       "Funny!"
          "Outrageous!"
                                            "Provocative!"
  "Honest!"
                                                        "Objective!"
                      "Great Book!"
      "Dangerous!"                       "Hilarious!"

I just don't need anything else when I have Dennis' books! Dennis is the most reliable guy out there to tell me the ups and downs of the game. Straight up no chaser with a shot of honesty.

Hey Doc,

I know you're a busy man so I'll keep it short. Just wanted to say thanks for all the help you've given me since I discovered your website about a year and 1/2 ago. I've read BAM1 twice and am in the process of reading BAM2 for the second time and I can't say enough about how much they've helped me. Some may naively think that the only subject of your works is relationship building (i.e. how to set standards, how to meet women, and how to act responsibly), but I've come to realize that it's far greater than that. Though I have a ton of work to do, I feel that the smarter man will work to develop a better understanding of how to live successfully, and in doing so will practice success with women. I'm learning to take control with out being controlling. I'm learning that a man can be a "friend" without having a "friendship" so long as he's willing to be frank about his expectations and not afraid to walk when necessary. It's tough being a "good guy" and I've felt so out of character in the past when trying to be a prick. Nonetheless, I've come to realize that one doesn't have to "change" to get what he wants, he just can't be afraid to lose pussy.

Thanks a Million!

If you don’t already have Dennis’s book “Being a Man in a Woman’s World™” then get it. If you need good solid advice then always listen to Dennis first.

I would like to again congratulate you on an excellent book. I have read book after book ranging from the NLP, to the hypnosis, to "speed seduction" to all the other internet dating crap...you're book is so much more!

I was really overweight in middle school and the beginning of high school so I never got any girls - my confidence was terrible! I lost sixty pounds and was very slim my senior year no one could believe it. I automatically thought girls would flock to me since I was thin but I was wrong. I had no self esteem and that is when I came to you for help. Your advice changed my life and I got your book "Being a Man in a Woman's World™" that helped very much too especially in spotting tests. Since reading your book I have had so much fun with girls and been happy about myself thanks to you.

This is the best book I have read about this subject. And I have read a lot of books and e-books about this subject! Definitely 5 stars for me. Don't waste money on anything else.

I am a 36 year old Frisco woman - Finally, a book that hits the mark! This book is brutally honest! It made me mad, because it is so right. I'm so glad to see someone dealing with the unfairness being thrown at men these days, and that someone is standing up for them!

I bought your book and have studied it several times, especially the sections on being tested and responding properly. I've made several mistakes in that area in my past relationships. Thanks for giving specific advice on how to handle a variety of tests.

Finally got the time to start reading your book! Without exaggeration--not since Kierkegard, Either/Or--Don Juan, or Cassonova's memoir's has someone addressed the opposite sex with such objectivity! Yours is even more relevant because it does not get wrapped up in the feminine mystic as the aforementioned; rather it clarifies cultural presuppositions, extracts rules that map a systematic approach toward a goal that most men want! Pleasure with a woman or women like yourself that have at least some minimum requirements!

This guide is timely in terms of knowing when and where to place one's efforts for success! Again congratulations! I am definitely impressed!

The first "Self-Help" book that really helps! Finally, a book with real, workable advice. You can throw away the others you've bought. Don't waste your money on anything else!

I just wanted to say that I bought your book and have found it to contain the most positively informative information on how to deal with women. I could not put it down. This book is the best! My hat's off to you sir!

This book is a great resource for men to unravel some of the mysteries of modern dating. It's straight-talking, somewhat sarcastic, sometimes funny and often challenging. Don't expect a pile of quick witticisms and pickup lines to use at the local bar from this book. It's more meaty than that. In fact, there are many goal-setting exercises which guide the reader into understanding his own wants, needs and desires and provides him with a framework from which to understand the (many) relationships he will experience in his search for an ideal mate. Dr. Neder applies psychology, sales, marketing, common sense and uncommon candor throughout this excellent title. He also provides many ideas on how to deal with particular situations (I especially liked his section on handling objections from women -- I've used a couple of these and... they work!). Well... the ideas in this book all work, which is why I think it's very well worth the price you pay.

Dennis is brilliant, when it comes to tactics for dealing with a true "playerette".

After years of getting my butt repeatedly kicked by women in relationships and not really having the types of relationships I wanted or that women wanted to have with me I found Dr. Neder's book 'Being a Man in a Woman's World™'. Dr. Neder provides a fresh and realistic look at male female relationships based on what really happens and what really takes for both sexes to feel fulfilled and happy in a relationship. Rather than spinning some politically correct view based on unrealistic and idealistic principles that continue to prevent either sex from finding true happiness he provides a real world understanding to which all of us can easily relate. He details all the required steps from the initial meeting, to the first phone call, to the first dates, how to get to the bedroom and beyond in a clear and easy to apply manner.

After reading his book I was finally able to understand and put in perspective virtually all of my previous relationships with women and discover why and where they either succeeded or failed. His book made me realize the importance of setting standards for what the man should and should not accept in a relationship with a woman. This one aspect alone has taken me into the highest echelons of success with women than I could previously imagine. Now I am able to have the types of relationships where I feel positive about myself and never feel like I am giving up anything at my own expense. The women I now date feel more at ease and are able to share themselves freely and respond to me the way they have always secretly desired. Consequently I believe that Dr. Neder's book and ideas contained within are useful for both sexes and I highly recommend that all men and all women that truly want to have happy, fulfilling, healthy and long lasting relationships should read.

Those that may find themselves disagreeing with Dr. Neder's ideas have no desire to have successful relationships and would rather focus on unhealthy destruction of their partner/s or the carrying out of some childhood drama as a means of avenging themselves against the world.

I highly advise those men and women that want true happiness in their relationships to read and apply the ideas contained within.

A lot of us have been through the school of hard knocks with relationships, including myself. I still haven't given up on the idea of marriage and if I ever meet the right woman to take that step with, I'm MUCH better prepared now (Thanks to BAM) to make it a success.

...what a difference to my success and relationships its been! Dennis's book has changed me. Believe me, I've been astounded by the results!

I purchased your book recently, and while I am only halfway through it, I believe it is a great buy. It is so very different from those stupid advice books I have seen available almost everywhere which do not address the real problem. Your book is great quite simply because I could see you wrote it through your own personal experiences, probably coupled with intelligent asking of why after each experience.

I used to be an AFC. ["Average Frustrated Chump"] I spent lots of money, and got nowhere. I read John Gray's books, and still got nowhere. Every book I read afterward on relationships geared towards men taught the same bullshit, the "pussification" of the American Male. After reading Dennis' book, I spend less than a third of what I used to and I get laid constantly. When women call me, they are really interested in being with me FOR me not for my wallet.

Hi, I find that this book is by far the best of the best. The other books I purchased fell far short of really spelling it out for a man who has no inner strength when it comes to women. On the other hand, I understand Neder's book easier and he has actual tools to start using right away.

Buy this book first! This book is the best no matter if you're trying to get one woman or one hundred women. Lots of tips and good insider information. You can see how women think and react and you can see how you may be approaching a woman wrong. If you're looking for a relationship book this one is the best so far.


	*"These tools will really work for you if you practice them consistently. You don't have to live like this anymore - go get it solved!" -Dr. Dennis W. Neder*
		Our Readers Speak Out! Its one thing to claim a book is incredible, but its another to have those folks that put their hard-earned cash on the table say so: "Scary!" "Funny!" "Outrageous!" "Provocative!" "Honest!" "Objective!" "Great Book!" "Dangerous!" "Hilarious!" I just don't need anything else when I have Dennis' books! Dennis is the most reliable guy out there to tell me the ups and downs of the game. Straight up no chaser with a shot of honesty. Hey Doc, I know you're a busy man so I'll keep it short. Just wanted to say thanks for all the help you've given me since I discovered your website about a year and 1/2 ago. I've read BAM1 twice and am in the process of reading BAM2 for the second time and I can't say enough about how much they've helped me. Some may naively think that the only subject of your works is relationship building (i.e. how to set standards, how to meet women, and how to act responsibly), but I've come to realize that it's far greater than that. Though I have a ton of work to do, I feel that the smarter man will work to develop a better understanding of how to live successfully, and in doing so will practice success with women. I'm learning to take control with out being controlling. I'm learning that a man can be a "friend" without having a "friendship" so long as he's willing to be frank about his expectations and not afraid to walk when necessary. It's tough being a "good guy" and I've felt so out of character in the past when trying to be a prick. Nonetheless, I've come to realize that one doesn't have to "change" to get what he wants, he just can't be afraid to lose pussy. Thanks a Million! If you don’t already have Dennis’s book “Being a Man in a Woman’s World™” then get it. If you need good solid advice then always listen to Dennis first. I would like to again congratulate you on an excellent book. I have read book after book ranging from the NLP, to the hypnosis, to "speed seduction" to all the other internet dating crap...you're book is so much more! I was really overweight in middle school and the beginning of high school so I never got any girls - my confidence was terrible! I lost sixty pounds and was very slim my senior year no one could believe it. I automatically thought girls would flock to me since I was thin but I was wrong. I had no self esteem and that is when I came to you for help. Your advice changed my life and I got your book "Being a Man in a Woman's World™" that helped very much too especially in spotting tests. Since reading your book I have had so much fun with girls and been happy about myself thanks to you. This is the best book I have read about this subject. And I have read a lot of books and e-books about this subject! Definitely 5 stars for me. Don't waste money on anything else. Dennis gives you zero bullshit. He's not trying to sell you. I am a 36 year old Frisco woman - Finally, a book that hits the mark! This book is brutally honest! It made me mad, because it is so right. I'm so glad to see someone dealing with the unfairness being thrown at men these days, and that someone is standing up for them! I bought your book and have studied it several times, especially the sections on being tested and responding properly. I've made several mistakes in that area in my past relationships. Thanks for giving specific advice on how to handle a variety of tests. Finally got the time to start reading your book! Without exaggeration--not since Kierkegard, Either/Or--Don Juan, or Cassonova's memoir's has someone addressed the opposite sex with such objectivity! Yours is even more relevant because it does not get wrapped up in the feminine mystic as the aforementioned; rather it clarifies cultural presuppositions, extracts rules that map a systematic approach toward a goal that most men want! Pleasure with a woman or women like yourself that have at least some minimum requirements! This guide is timely in terms of knowing when and where to place one's efforts for success! Again congratulations! I am definitely impressed! The first "Self-Help" book that really helps! Finally, a book with real, workable advice. You can throw away the others you've bought. Don't waste your money on anything else! I just wanted to say that I bought your book and have found it to contain the most positively informative information on how to deal with women. I could not put it down. This book is the best! My hat's off to you sir! This book is a great resource for men to unravel some of the mysteries of modern dating. It's straight-talking, somewhat sarcastic, sometimes funny and often challenging. Don't expect a pile of quick witticisms and pickup lines to use at the local bar from this book. It's more meaty than that. In fact, there are many goal-setting exercises which guide the reader into understanding his own wants, needs and desires and provides him with a framework from which to understand the (many) relationships he will experience in his search for an ideal mate. Dr. Neder applies psychology, sales, marketing, common sense and uncommon candor throughout this excellent title. He also provides many ideas on how to deal with particular situations (I especially liked his section on handling objections from women -- I've used a couple of these and... they work!). Well... the ideas in this book all work, which is why I think it's very well worth the price you pay. Dennis is brilliant, when it comes to tactics for dealing with a true "playerette". After years of getting my butt repeatedly kicked by women in relationships and not really having the types of relationships I wanted or that women wanted to have with me I found Dr. Neder's book 'Being a Man in a Woman's World™'. Dr. Neder provides a fresh and realistic look at male female relationships based on what really happens and what really takes for both sexes to feel fulfilled and happy in a relationship. Rather than spinning some politically correct view based on unrealistic and idealistic principles that continue to prevent either sex from finding true happiness he provides a real world understanding to which all of us can easily relate. He details all the required steps from the initial meeting, to the first phone call, to the first dates, how to get to the bedroom and beyond in a clear and easy to apply manner. After reading his book I was finally able to understand and put in perspective virtually all of my previous relationships with women and discover why and where they either succeeded or failed. His book made me realize the importance of setting standards for what the man should and should not accept in a relationship with a woman. This one aspect alone has taken me into the highest echelons of success with women than I could previously imagine. Now I am able to have the types of relationships where I feel positive about myself and never feel like I am giving up anything at my own expense. The women I now date feel more at ease and are able to share themselves freely and respond to me the way they have always secretly desired. Consequently I believe that Dr. Neder's book and ideas contained within are useful for both sexes and I highly recommend that all men and all women that truly want to have happy, fulfilling, healthy and long lasting relationships should read. Those that may find themselves disagreeing with Dr. Neder's ideas have no desire to have successful relationships and would rather focus on unhealthy destruction of their partner/s or the carrying out of some childhood drama as a means of avenging themselves against the world. I highly advise those men and women that want true happiness in their relationships to read and apply the ideas contained within. A lot of us have been through the school of hard knocks with relationships, including myself. I still haven't given up on the idea of marriage and if I ever meet the right woman to take that step with, I'm MUCH better prepared now (Thanks to BAM) to make it a success. ...what a difference to my success and relationships its been! Dennis's book has changed me. Believe me, I've been astounded by the results! I purchased your book recently, and while I am only halfway through it, I believe it is a great buy. It is so very different from those stupid advice books I have seen available almost everywhere which do not address the real problem. Your book is great quite simply because I could see you wrote it through your own personal experiences, probably coupled with intelligent asking of why after each experience. I used to be an AFC. ["Average Frustrated Chump"] I spent lots of money, and got nowhere. I read John Gray's books, and still got nowhere. Every book I read afterward on relationships geared towards men taught the same bullshit, the "pussification" of the American Male. After reading Dennis' book, I spend less than a third of what I used to and I get laid constantly. When women call me, they are really interested in being with me FOR me not for my wallet. Hi, I find that this book is by far the best of the best. The other books I purchased fell far short of really spelling it out for a man who has no inner strength when it comes to women. On the other hand, I understand Neder's book easier and he has actual tools to start using right away. Buy this book first! This book is the best no matter if you're trying to get one woman or one hundred women. Lots of tips and good insider information. You can see how women think and react and you can see how you may be approaching a woman wrong. If you're looking for a relationship book this one is the best so far.

Our Readers Speak Out!